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President's Column: Where are the Atheist Women?
jeannette_watland.jpgBy Jeannette Watland

It's a familiar scenario. You go to an atheist event and walk into a room full of men. There may be a few women, but in many cases men make up the majority of atheist groups. Why is this? There is no original sin in atheism. There is no book telling us women are inferior. We don't force our women to cover up for religious reasons and women can hold office in these organizations with no questions asked. Atheism seems like it would be the perfect platform for empowerment. So why is it that these groups have such a hard time attracting more women?
 
In order to answer this question, some generalizations have to be made. I don't fit into any of these generalizations, and many other women I know don't either, but these are theories I've heard on forums and other discussions on the topic that may be worth exploring, even if they aren't true. The first possible reason could be that there simply are not as many atheist women as there are men. Religion has aspects that appeal to emotions. Women have been characterized as being more emotional and empathetic. Would women be more naturally drawn to religion because it meets their emotional needs? Second, it could be very plausible that there are as many atheist women as men, but the aggressive and negative nature of many atheist groups is a major turn off for women. Nothing turns me off faster than ridiculing religion. Am I an abnormality, or is this a common trend? Or is the problem simple? Maybe women just don't feel like hanging out with a bunch of boys.
 
Whatever the reason, atheist women need to represent. It's not as if we don't have any wonderful women role models to lead the way. Historical figures include Madalyn Murray O'Hair, Elizabeth Cady-Stanton, and Margaret Sanger. Present day women include Margaret Downey, Annie Laurie Gaylor, and my own personal icon Ayaan Hirsi Ali. Minnesota Atheists have their fair share of amazing women. Cynthia Egli (past president of Minnesota Atheists), Crystal Dervetski (one of the hardest working organizers I know), and Stephanie Zvan (blogger and past host of Atheist Talk). So I urge all atheist women out there: Get involved, be vocal, and become leaders. Show the world we can do what the men do...better.


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Cindy T said:

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From my experience there are more women coming from injured places perhaps then men and/or religion is more a drug of choice for women, along with codependency and fantasy addiction. Those behaviors are more socially acceptable (and more hidden) than drug use, gambling, sex etc.
February 20, 2010

Michael said:

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My view is this: there are different types of atheism, but the atheism that tends to get most play is based on science. Because the schools subtly encourage males more than females when it comes to science, there tend to be more males in science than females. Hence, there are more males who are science-atheists. However, there are other forms of atheism, especially in the humanities, but they tend not to get much attention. In the humanities, there are many female atheists, but these women tend to be indifferent to religion--they do not wear their atheism on their sleeves as a badge of honor. Their commitments to other major social issues overshadow their atheistic view of the world.
February 26, 2010

John Robinson said:

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It could be because the first, primary goal of religion is control, and women are at the top of the control list (wear a veil, walk behind, do as you're told, 1 Timothy 2:12, reproduce again, sit still while I circumcise this . . . ). As such, women receive a heaver dose of the control methods than the men, so it may be harder for more of them to break away.
March 08, 2010

Brian Groven said:

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I have no idea why either, but all I know is that there should be more atheist women as I would like to get married to one someday! Maybe they're just not in Minnesota. Minnesota, in my experience, is a very religious state. I grew up surrounded by Lutherans and other Protestant Christians. It seems there is always a church on every block. I think it has to do with the Scandanavian roots in Minnesota too. A lot of immigrants from Norway, Sweden, and Denmark brought their religion with them.
March 11, 2010

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